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MYROSE SAVIOUR's avatar

One communication weakness I used to have was voice confrontation—The fear or dislike of hearing one's voice, due to the discrepancy between how you think you sound and the higher, different pitch heard in recordings, due to bone conduction.

I avoided the spotlight—in church, school, and other social settings, and anything that could make me hear my voice. Within me, I knew I was cheating myself and forcing myself to live below my potential.

So what did I do?

I had to use my phone's recorder to record myself, and coerced myself to listen to the recordings. Soon, I was able to find areas that needed development—which I worked on, and then, slowly but surely, I felt in love with my voice, and that was how I climbed out of voice confrontation.

Utibe Ekeruke's avatar

When we practice more, instead of being in a haste to perform, performance becomes relief and without pressure for us.

Most times I neglect the practicing aspect before performing because I used to think that I don't have even one person to practice communication with before going out there to perform.

But I mean if Demosthenes could isolate himself and still practice the way he practiced then I don't necessarily need the best avenue to practice, I can practice by myself, continually and consistently.

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